Men can’t get pregnant, so they shouldn’t tell women what to do.
The pro-life movement is often characterized as an effort by men to control women’s bodies. But in fact, some studies have shown women to be more pro-life than men. Perhaps they recognize that abortion often serves the selfish interests of men rather than the real needs of women.
The experience of pro-life counselors and the testimony of women who have spoken out about their abortions show that men are more likely to push women into abortions they do not want than to try to force them not to have an abortion. But we never hear abortion advocates speaking out against this kind of influence of men over women.
The pro-life movement calls on men to take responsibility for the children they have helped to conceive. The men who are active in the pro-life movement are responding to the call to step up and be advocates for women and children.
Finally, no one would try to impose this principle — that only those directly affected by an issue should have any say about it — to any other social justice movement. It was not only slaves, former slaves and former slave owners who spoke out for emancipation. It was not only black Americans who fought for civil rights. Nor should it be only women, today, who speak out against abortion.
Newport, Frank. “Men, Women Generally Hold Similar Abortion Attitudes.” Gallup, Inc. June 14, 2018. https://news.gallup.com/poll/235646/men-women-generally-hold-similar-abortion-attitudes.aspx.